What To Do When Your Toddler Won’t Eat Dinner

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If there is one situation every mother dreads it is her child going to bed hungry. We worry what if he wakes up in the middle of the night, and can’t get back to sleep after that.

Most moms must have faced this situation at least once in their mothering stint. So, what to do when your toddler won’t eat dinner? Do you force-feed him? Do you bribe him with cookies? Do you go with the flow and pray you don’t have another sleepless night at hand?

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5 Tips For When Your Toddler Won’t Eat Dinner

  1. Assess daily routine and make modifications

Let us start by assessing the situation first.

How frequently does the child go to bed without a proper meal?

Does dinner need to be moved to a more earlier or later time?

Is the child still full at dinner from the last snack? Maybe consider lighter snack options like fruit or move dinner to later in the daily routine.

If the child is skipping dinner regularly, it may be time to change the routine to accommodate a proper time for dinner.

In my experience, the days when our toddler has got a good amount of outside active play time he eats a bigger dinner. Make sure to include enough time outside so the child can work up an appetite.

  1. Offer a favorite food at dinner

One way to make sure that skipping dinner does not become a habit is to offer at least one of your toddler’s favorite foods at dinner. That way you know he will try what’s on the plate and most likely finish dinner too.

Make sure that the favorite food offered is something healthy not a treat food like cookies, or muffins.

  1. Tackle hunger pangs at bedtime

Many times the child skips dinner and then demands something to eat at bedtime. By now, most mothers have wrapped up dinner and the usual go-to bedtime snack ends up being some sort of a treat food like cookies.

When this happens routinely we are unknowingly sending a message to the child that if he waits long enough he will get a treat food instead.

This becomes a vicious cycle and every day at dinner the child expects the treat food instead of dinner. You lose your temper, he persists with the demand and you give in at the end, not wanting the child to sleep with an empty stomach.

So the next time your toddler won’t eat dinner and is hungry at bedtime offer a simple but filling and nutritious snack. Options to try;

-a banana with some nut butter,

-an apple with nut butter,

-a bowl of oats porridge (Read here for oats recipes for kids)

-a glass of milk

Banana and oats are foods that are known to promote sound sleep. Here is an older post on toddler sleep tips that includes an in-depth list of sleep-promoting foods and food combinations.

  1. When the toddler goes to bed without dinner

Which brings me to the point, what do you do when the child is tired at dinner and only wants to sleep. You know he is going to be hungry sometime in the night and this may disturb his sleep. But at the same time, you don’t want to be force feeding your child.

In this particular situation, I would say just breathe and let it go. We need to respect the child’s body rhythms. These situations don’t happen very often and what is better, a child crying at the table over his plate of food? or sleeping peacefully?

Most likely he had a really long day and is too exhausted to eat. On such nights I have noticed my son doesn’t wake up in the middle of the night. He usually has a huge breakfast the next morning.

And if he does wake up in the middle of the night, oh well, I have a glass of milk and some fruit and nuts waiting for him in the fridge.

Honestly speaking in the last 3 years, from the handful of times our son went off to bed without dinner he only woke up once in the middle of the night from hunger. All the other times he was so tired he slept through the night.

All I am saying is, that these situations probably happen a couple of nights a year and you should not stress yourself and your child over dinner.

But, if this looks like a recurring theme in your home, you need to move dinner to an earlier time or make sure your child has a heavy snack at least.

Until then, your child is learning to regulate his appetite, understand his appetite and hunger and will slowly get into a meal routine.

  1. Snackable dinner

At other times, when you can predict that your child may skip dinner altogether, example when at an evening party or a late play date, you can offer an early snackable dinner before you head out.

Fill a snack tray with fun but nutritious and filling options for your child to fill up on before the party.

This idea is a great way to avoid your child from overeating on sugary treat foods at the party and you are assured that even if he skips dinner altogether at the party he had something nutritious earlier in the evening.

At social gatherings, little children get excited around their peers and are more interested in play than the dinner offered.

Example of foods to offer as snackable dinner: quick eats like boiled eggs, chopped carrots, cucumbers, whole wheat crackers with hummus, a little fruit, nut butter, or energy bites. I always stock my house with these essentials and prep such ingredients regularly to be able to quickly build a plate of food when needed.

To sum it up

All I want to leave you with is to relax and learn to trust your child’s appetite. This is the foundation for building lifelong healthy eating habits.

Force feeding, shaming, blaming, and lecturing on the quantity of food is not going to help.

As a mom, go with your gut feeling, you know when things are actually going south. For all the other times they are doing just fine. We don’t have the same appetite every day of our lives, do we?

Since I get asked this question many times, I hope I have been able to answer adequately. If you have more doubts or queries regarding toddler feeding, do leave me a comment below and I will try my best to provide solutions.

Here is a previous post on common toddler feeding habits, problems, and solutions.

What do you do when your toddler won’t eat dinner? Let me know in the comments below.

10 Power Packed Immune Boosting Foods For Kids

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The child’s diet is the number one concern for most parents. I get asked about, how to boost immunity in toddlers, and immune boosting foods for kids, quite often as a mommy blogger. And since I write about healthy meals for kids, this is known territory for me.

Food plays an important role in maintaining good health. We all know good food equals good health. But how can we help our little children with varying appetites, fussy eating problems and get them to eat a good quality diet in the right quantities that helps maintain strong immunity?

In my blog post tackling common toddler eating problems, you will find tips on how to overcome fussy eating with a consistent routine and modification to your approach to food and eating.

In this post, I will talk about 10 immune boosting foods for kids.

If you follow me on Instagram where I post regularly about healthy toddler food ideas, you will see that I include each of these foods in our daily diet at home.

Regardless of how well our son eats, these foods are always on the plate.  A diet centered around these foods is known to maintain a strong immunity and keep most illnesses at bay. That’s why I call them my mommy arsenal against diseases.

But wait, before we start,

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WHAT ARE IMMUNITY BOOSTING FOODS?

To understand why we include the following foods in our arsenal against illness and disease we need to first understand what happens inside the body when infectious disease-causing bacteria or viruses gain entry.

Our body has a natural defense mechanism that includes fighter cells like the WBC’s and antibodies which are the bodies first line of defense against disease-causing bacteria and viruses. These cells neutralize any threat to the body.

Certain foods in conjunction with factors like good rest, Vit D and low-stress help keep the body in a balanced and healthy state ready to take on any invasion by infectious bacteria or viruses.

These foods contain immune system supporting compounds like antioxidants, certain key minerals and vitamins like zinc, selenium, iron, copper, Vit A and Vit C for example that keep the body nourished and ready to take on any pathogens.

It is well known that malnourished persons are most vulnerable to disease-causing pathogens.

Poor nutrition in childhood causes frequent illnesses. Including the below-listed foods is the first step towards building your child’s immune system and ward off infectious illnesses.

10 Power-Packed Immune Boosting Foods For Kids

  1. Vegetables

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Vegetables have a high antioxidant level that prevents inflammation in the body. The darker the vegetable the more antioxidant-rich it is. Vegetables like green leafy’s are packed full of vitamins, minerals, and fiber, containing important vitamins such as vitamin A, vitamin C, vitamin K, and folate.

Cruciferous vegetables like cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli, and bok choy are rich sources of vitamins C, E, and K. They contain compounds that are anti-cancer and cardioprotective in nature.

These nutrient-dense foods when consumed regularly not only keep the body’s immunity strong, they also protect against various diseases like diabetes, cardiovascular problems, and cancer. Encouraging the love for vegetables when children are young is like gifting them with life insurance.

For an average toddler, you should aim for 2-3 servings of vegetables a day.

How to offer: Vegetarian sides, vegetable soups, stews, roasted vegetables, vegetable curries, vegetable stuffed parathas.

  1. Fruits

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Next up is fruits of course. If your kids don’t like vegetables but eat fruit, don’t worry too much, offer fruit instead. Most of the nutritional benefits are the same between fruits and vegetables. Offer fruits in all the colors of the rainbow, making sure to include seasonal fruit varieties. These come with the right amount of nutrients that are suited to the weather at that time of the year and provide natural immunity against illnesses.

The Vit C in fruits helps guard against the common cold and other illnesses. The phytonutrients, antioxidants, vitamins, and minerals paired with fiber is what makes fruits and vegetables health foods with immune protective properties.

How to offer: Cut up into appropriately sized pieces in a fruit platter, fruit smoothies, nice creams, popsicles, fruit skewers.

  1. Turmeric

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The health benefits of turmeric are world-renowned. Turmeric is now recognized as the superfood with cancer-fighting properties.

Luckily for us, Indian food has incorporated this immune boosting food for eons. In fact, I am sure most of us grew up drinking turmeric milk every morning as a part of the Indian breakfast meal.

Turmeric or Haldi contains a compound called curcumin, that is known for its anti-inflammatory properties that help boost immunity.

Curcumin’s reported beneficial effects in arthritis, allergy, asthma, atherosclerosis, heart disease, Alzheimer’s disease, diabetes, and cancer might be due in part to its ability to modulate the immune system. Some researchers now believe in using this compound as immune therapy for certain immune disorders. (source)

If you are wondering how to eat turmeric, then the answer is to eat it in the whole form, as root or in ground powder form where its own natural oils help the body to absorb the curcumin best.

Pepper, when combined with turmeric, is also found to be the best combination to boost the absorption of the curcumin.

How to offer: Added in stews, curries, rice dishes, added to a glass of cows milk with saffron and dry fruits powder.

  1. Mushrooms

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Mushrooms are very good at immune modulation and various studies have elucidated how adept mushrooms are as antitumor agents. (source)

In fact, mushrooms have been used in Eastern medicine for a long time, it is only now that the world is becoming more aware of the benefits of consuming mushrooms.

Mushrooms contain Vit D which makes it an important immunity boosting food. Increasing mushroom intake definitely helps maintain a healthy body. To know more about the superfood benefits of mushrooms, read my blog post on vegan superfoods for kids.

How to offer: Stir fry, sauteed mushrooms, in vegetarian stews, curries, and rice dishes.

  1. Lentils

Lentils are powerhouse foods containing B vitamins, folate, zinc, and magnesium. They provide protein and a good amount of fiber needed by the growing body. Lentils are also a good source of iron which is an important mineral during childhood.

The beautiful thing about lentils is that they contain certain polyphenolic compounds and phytochemicals that are known to be immune boosting, neuroprotective, and anti-inflammation.

The polyphenols in lentils do not lose their health benefits on cooking, which is great because you need to cook lentils thoroughly in order to be able to digest them properly. (source) Here are some lentil recipes for toddlers.

How to offer: Lentil curry, Dal, Lentil patty, Sambhar, lentil bolognese.

  1. Ginger

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Ginger has anti-inflammatory, anti-cancer, anti-nausea and immune boosting power. The protective effects of ginger are well known in traditional medicine.

Raw ginger can be a little spicy for kids to handle so hiding it in small quantities in vegetarian dishes or making a drink sweetened with honey can help.

Ginger is a great food to increase immunity against cold and cough. In winters, I make basil and ginger tea – Add 1/2 inch stalk of ginger, 3-4 basil leaves in 2 cups of water. Bring water to boil. Now remove the basil leaves and ginger. Add a little honey to this tea and offer toddlers as a drink in their sippy cup. Be careful to offer this tea lukewarm.

How to offer: Ginger can be added in curries, stews, and green juices.

  1. Root vegetables

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Root vegetables like sweet potatoes, potatoes, carrots, beets, radishes, turnips, yams, taro, kohlrabi, celeriac, offer a variety of nutrient-rich ingredients that support good health.

Even turmeric, garlic, and ginger are root vegetables, but I don’t include them here as we use them more like spices and flavoring ingredients.

Since root vegetables grow in the soil, they absorb a lot of nutrients from the soil. Root vegetables provide much-needed fiber, vitamin C and a variety of antioxidants that provide with protective action against diseases and illness.

Winters are known to be cold and flu season. And if you look at what is naturally available in season at this time of the year you will find many of these root vegetables in the markets. Nature has perfectly designed the foods we need to eat each season to maintain good health and disease resistance.

How to offer: In stews, boiled with a little salt and pepper, or roasted root vegetables.

Get this yummy sweet potato mash recipe for babies and toddlers.

  1. Millets

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Millets are tiny seeded grass that is packed with vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants. They are classified as superfoods by some for their ability to protect against cardiovascular ailments, cancers, and nutrient deficit problems.

Millets are easy to digest and some like ragi, bajra, jowar are a great addition to a growing child’s diet. To know more about the benefits of millets read my post on Millets for babies.  I also included two baby-friendly recipes in that post.

How to offer: Millet based soups, pancakes, porridge, dosas, and idlis.

  1. Nuts

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If there is one advice by my grandfather that I remember to this day, it was his, “Eat a handful of nuts everyday” advice. He strictly followed his own advice and ate a handful of mixed nuts including almonds, pistachios, cashews, and walnuts daily.

Nuts are a powerhouse of vitamins, and minerals beneficial to health. Not just vitamins and minerals, they provide protein, omega 3’s, and healthy fats. What’s not to like?

Nuts contain Vit E which with its high antioxidant properties helps keep cells healthy and protects against disease.

Adding nuts to a child’s diet is a great way to reduce overall saturated fat content in daily diet and substitute it with healthy monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fat. Not only are you providing immune protective foods but also helping maintain a healthy weight on the baby.

Here is a detailed post on healthy fats for kids.

How to offer: Add nuts to smoothies, nut powder to parathas or porridge, include nut butter in the child’s diet, nut butter on toast, or with pancakes, make energy balls with nuts and dates.

  1. Eggs

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Eggs contain many healthy vitamins and minerals like Vit A, Vit B 12, Vit D, Vit E, zinc, selenium, iron, choline, iodine, lutein and zeaxanthin and omega 3 fatty acids.

The lutein and zeaxanthin especially are eye protective in nature.

All these vitamins and minerals are important to support good health and boost the immune system.

How to offer: Scrambled eggs, omelets, egg muffins, egg sandwiches, and boiled eggs.

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OTHER FACTORS THAT CONTRIBUTE TO GOOD HEALTH AND STRONG IMMUNITY IN KIDS

  1. Vit D: Vit D has an important role to play in immune modulation. A deficiency in Vit D is known to increase susceptibility to infections and increases the risk of autoimmune diseases. Which means a good amount of time should be spent playing outside. At the same time choose timings of the day when the sun does not burn the skin, for example, early mornings and early evenings.
  2. Good sleep: Low-stress levels and good sleep both contribute to better immune function.
  3. Avoid sugar: Excessive sugar intake suppresses the immune system. Sugar is found in so many foods besides chocolates and sweets. Foods like sauces, ketchup, fruit juice, packaged snacks for kids all contain sugar. A diet high in sugar puts stress on the immune system and causes regular illness. The American Heart Association (AHA) recommends limiting sugar for kids above 2 years of age at 25 gms or 6 teaspoons a day. To understand how sugar is leading to a rise in children’s obesity in India read my post detailing the harmful side-effects of sugars and hidden sugars in foods.

I hope this post helps you design a healthy meal plan for your toddler. One that supports growth, development and also protects your little one from unnecessary illnesses.

Which foods do you rely on to boost immunity in your kids? Leave me a comment below.

Surviving The Stomach Flu In Kids And Toddlers

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Most young children don’t follow proper hygiene rules, it can be difficult as a parent to get them to wash their hands thoroughly. The end result is the common childhood disease, stomach flu. Stomach flu in kids is a nasty illness. Not only are our littles troubled with trying to keep any food inside, but that coupled with diarrhea leaves them exhausted and irritable.

Viral gastroenteritis or stomach flu is an intestinal infection caused by viruses like rotavirus and norovirus.

Stomach flu is caused by coming into contact with an infected person or contaminated food or water. Raw or undercooked food can also make one sick.

The first step to prevention is to maintain hygienic environments when cooking and preparing foods and drinking boiled or properly filtered water. Be especially cautious about where you eat outside the home. Look for restaurants that maintain good hygiene standards on-premises and in the kitchen. And yes, do not risk offering street food to toddlers and young children.

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STOMACH FLU SYMPTOMS

The most common stomach flu symptoms include

  1. Watery stools or diarrhea
  2. Pain in the abdomen or cramps
  3. Vomiting
  4. Muscle aches and pain
  5. Low-grade Fever – monitor your child’s fever, if the fever exceeds 102 F (38.9 C) contact your doctor immediately.

Since most of these symptoms are similar to a bacterial infection caused by E.coli or Salmonella, it is important to monitor the child’s progress and stay vigilant about child’s energy levels.

A common concern with diarrhea is the onset of dehydration, and keeping your child hydrated becomes the first line of action.

If any of these symptoms worsen that is,

  1. fever above 102 F,
  2. blood in stools,
  3. the child is vomiting every hour,
  4. the child has loose watery diarrhea, one every hour
  5. No improvement in condition in 24 hours

it is best to contact your child’s doctor about the condition and set up an appointment on discussing signs and symptoms.

STOMACH FLU TREATMENT

Stomach flu gets better on its own and there is no effective stomach flu treatment.  Even so, there are certain things you can do to help your child feel better during the illness like replacing lost fluids with electrolyte water. This prevents dehydration from setting in.

For more expert counsel and advice specific to your child’s case always call a doctor.

Contact your doctor to get the name of the pediatric electrolyte solution specific to your country and any other medicine to relieve some of the other persisting symptoms your child may be suffering.

TODDLER STOMACH BUG WHAT TO FEED

The first question that comes up when you face the stomach flu is, what to feed a toddler with stomach flu?

In most cases, if the child is not throwing up and can keep food down you can continue with regular home cooked food.

Many children loose appetite which makes it a little more complicated to serve food that appeals to them during the illness.

Following a BRAT diet [diet comprising of bananas, rice, applesauce, and toast] helps to a large extent. These foods make the stools more firm.

The stomach flu diet includes:

  1. Bananas – potassium which helps replace this nutrient lost during vomiting and diarrhea.
  2. Plain white rice – easy to digest and provides the necessary energy in the form of simple carbs. Brown rice may be difficult to digest because of high fiber content and should be avoided.
  3. Applesauce – provides energy and easy to digest.
  4. Toast/White Bread – helps make stools firm and is easy on the stomach.
  5. Include foods rich in probiotics like yogurt, these can boost the good gut flora and help with reducing diarrhea.
  6. Starchy foods like potatoes also help fill the stomach and maintain energy levels.
  7. Oats- Make a simple porridge. It is easy to digest and not too irritating on the tummy.

Some of the preparations I use in our home is mashed potatoes, boiled sweet potatoes, soups like plain corn soup or tomato soup, plain toast, citrus fruits like oranges, sweet limes, and rice dish called Kongee.

Rice kongee- stomach flu diet

To make Rice Kongee slow cook rice in 6:1 water: rice proportion.

Slow cook until rice is done. I have added a picture for you to get an idea of the consistency.

In case you are wondering what are the foods to eat after a stomach bug, well, this depends on your child. Start by slow introduction of a regular diet, and depending on how well the child is keeping the food in you can increase intake back to old portion sizes and foods.

WHAT FOODS TO AVOID DURING THE STOMACH FLU IN KIDS

  1. You may want to avoid other dairy products like milk and cheese as these are harder to digest.
  2. Go easy on fruits and vegetables as they are high in fiber and can aggravate the problem.
  3. Avoid greasy foods like fried chips.
  4. Avoid processed meat and meat-based dishes.
  5. Avoid spicy foods.

WHAT TO FEED A TODDLER AFTER VOMITING

If the child is throwing up, wait on solid foods for a bit.

Let him sip on some electrolyte solution or coconut water in order to rehydrate.

Also, continue breastfeeding to help the child get some nutrition.

Once his stomach settles, offer non-irritating bland foods like toast, crackers, potatoes or applesauce.

Continue on the BRAT diet until vomiting has subsided, do not force feed at such a time. Understand that low appetite is normal when feeling sick.

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HOME REMEDIES FOR STOMACH FLU IN KIDS

Other than staying hydrated and eating a BRAT diet you can also try the following:

  1. Rice water left over from boiling brown rice can be given to kids to help ease diarrhea
  2. Ginger has anti-inflammatory properties: Boil water with a stalk of ginger in it. Give this water to your toddler to sip on. Add a tiny bit of honey to sweeten this ginger water for your kids.
  3. Fennel seeds can be given to older toddlers to chew on. Fennel helps relieve gas and bloating. If the toddler cannot chew on fennel, you can steep some fennel seeds in hot water and strain out the seeds before giving your toddler this fennel tea as a drink to sip on.

Once again to summarize for you,

  1. Hydrate with fluids like water, coconut water, clear soups, and electrolyte solutions
  2. Eat a simple and easy to digest diet consisting of bananas, applesauce, white bread, crackers, rice, and potatoes.
  3. Eat probiotic-rich foods like yogurt.
  4. Rest and lots of cuddles.

I hope these tips help you out in the unfortunate event your child has the stomach flu.

Try not to stress too much, our kids pick up on our stress, which only makes them feel worse.

Stay vigilant, monitor the progress of the illness and most importantly provide your kids with more love and some encouraging words to help them stay positive through the illness.

Do you have some home remedies for stomach flu that worked for your kids? Let me know what worked for you, leave me a comment below. Share this post with other moms you know.

Until next time, Ciao!

What My Toddler Eats In A Week

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I have received a lot of queries on Instagram about what my toddler eats. Starting this month I’m launching a series called “What my toddler eats in a week”. This way other mothers can get an idea of what to offer toddlers. There are very few blog posts and videos online about Indian weaning foods past the initial stage. Hope this series acts as an inspiration for your toddler meals.
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Disclaimer: I am not a nutritionist, and this is not a portrayal of an ideal diet. Any dietary issues you may face with your child need to be consulted with a doctor and trained nutritionist.

We practice baby led weaning in our home. And I try my best to bring variety to my child’s meals taking all the information I have about food and nutrition into consideration.

We are still breastfeeding at 20 months and breastfeeding consists of  2-3 feeds in the day and 2-3 feeds in the night. I don’t give him any other milk daily, but I do make almond milk at home once or twice a month, and also switch between offering cows milk or goat’s milk from time to time. Its not a daily; “have one glass of milk” type of thing. He gets his nutrition primarily from breast milk and solid foods.

At present he eats 3 full meals and 2 snacks, but there are days he can have as many as 6-7 mini meals a day. I just go with the flow. Being baby led weaned, he eats family meals. But since he eats frequently I prepare many mini meals throughout the day to keep him fed. So the main meals are what we all eat together as a family and the rest are sometimes made especially for him.

I haven’t added pictures of every meal either because many times dinner is the same as lunch or because a hungry toddler didn’t give me enough time to set up the plate and click a picture. To keep it uniform I stuck to 4 pictures a day with detailed description of everything he ate in the day.

Let’s begin,

Monday

Breakfast: Started the week with oats pancake and two hard-boiled quail eggs
Snack 1: Bowl of muskmelon
Lunch: Dal, rice, capsicum sabzi, and a side of mushrooms sautéed in butter.
Snack 2: Sprouted jowar porridge. I simply soak the sprouted jowar in water for 15 minutes. Then cook in 1:2 proportion water and let it cook until the water is absorbed. Towards the end of cook time I add a teaspoon on ghee and cardamom powder.
Dinner: Was the same as lunch.

Tuesday

Breakfast: Pohe. My husband makes some yummy maharashtrian breakfast dishes. Pohe is one of his specialties. (Flattened rice savory breakfast dish)
Snack 1: Chikoo, My son loves fruits and chikoos are one of his favorites. He had 2 chikoos as a snack this day.
Lunch: Dal, rice, okra sabzi, boiled and grated beetroot salad.
Snack 2: Leftover pohe from breakfast, some oat balls, and raisins.
Dinner: Pasta dish. We usually add whatever vegetables are left over in the house. Today in the tomato sauce I added broccoli, onions, leftover green and yellow capsicums. Pasta is a hit with my son; we make pasta atleast once or sometimes even twice a week. Also, its super easy for me to quickly whip up a one-pot pasta meal for dinner. We use whole-wheat pasta.

Wednesday

Breakfast: Upma, Little A’s grandma was home and she made delicious upma.
Snack 1: Watermelon and Brazil nuts. Now the thing is, my son is obsessed with watermelon. As a mother I feel like he is only getting in tiny amounts of calories through this watery fruit. So I made a Brazil nut powder and served that too on the side. This way he is taking in some healthy fats along with the watermelon.
Lunch: Dal, rice, cabbage and okra sabzi.
Snack 2: 2 hard-boiled quail eggs and oranges.
Snack 3: Oats pancake with teaspoon of honey.
Dinner: Dal, rice, cabbage sabzi and grated beetroot salad.

Thursday

Breakfast: Pohe once again. Yes, we eat the same foods on repeat!
Snack 1: Chapatti, banana, chikoo. We use a wheat flour and ragi flour mix to make our chapatti. Ragi is a good source of iron. I spread almond butter on the chapatti.
Lunch: Chickpea curry and rice.
Snack 2: Watermelon and scrambled duck egg.
Dinner: Chickpea curry, rice and thalipeeth. In my post on baby led weaning breakfast ideas I mentioned my cheats version to having thalipeeth flour ready at home always. This helps me out on days when I am running out of ideas and I can quickly whip up a snack or a side like this for my son.

Friday

Breakfast: Idli and coconut chutney
Snack 1: Overnight oats; I add whatever is available at home to the oats in the night. This day I added, oats, almond milk, almond butter, chia seeds, banana, desiccated coconut and hemp seeds. This one is again one of my son’s absolute favorites.
Lunch: Dal, rice, cauliflower sabzi, grated beetroot salad.
Snack 2: Paneer (cottage cheese), potato patty.
Dinner: Dal, rice, sautéed mushrooms and steamed broccoli with a drizzle of olive oil. We ran out of the lunch vegetables.  Hubby and I wanted to eat some take out, so I quickly made Little A some sautéed mushrooms and steamed broccoli to go along with his dal rice.

Saturday

Breakfast: Idli. He didn’t want any chutney with his idli. Toddler food choices are random; one day they enjoy eating one thing and the next day they don’t want to touch the same. We don’t fret over it, we just move on to planning the next meal and he usually forgets about his own specifications in the coming days. The key takeaway here is don’t stop preparing things because your toddler won’t eat, repeated exposure makes them get over their initial apprehensions.
Snack 1: Strawberries and some more plain idli’s!
Lunch: Dal, rice, dum aloo (baby potatoes) and spinach sabzi. He was ravenously hungry by this time and loved the dum aloo dish. Win for mommy!
Snack 2: Milkshake (goat’s milk, banana, cardamom powder, and saffron)
Dinner: Same as lunch.

Sunday

Breakfast: Dosa and chutney. So today with dosa he enjoyed dipping his chutney and eating it. This proves their choices vary every day.
Snack 1: Oats balls and raisins.
Lunch: Dal, rice, pumpkin sabzi
Snack 2: Uttapa and chutney, I used the dosa batter to make a thicker pancake called uttapa.
Snack 3: Coconut water and tender coconut meat.
Snack 4: Duck egg, chapatti with almond butter and chikoo
Dinner: Mushroom fried rice. There are days like this where he keeps asking for meals, so I make him many mini meals throughout the day.
If you want to take a look at some more snack ideas I use for my son you can check this post on how I get my child to eat healthy everyday for some recipes I shared.

Since I get a lot of questions about some of our baby led weaning equipment and pantry products, I have included a mini favorites list below:

Equipment:

Favorite Pantry Products:

We buy most of our organic staples like rice and dals from Amazon Pantry. The rest like eggs,milk, fresh fruits and vegetables we either buy organic from Nature’s Basket stores or local vendors.

I hope you found this post useful. If you have any specific queries or want to know more about products I use leave me a comment below.

For more food ideas for your child follow me on Instagram. I regularly upload pictures of what my son eats in a day.

For more recipes for toddlers 12-18 months

and what my toddler eats in a week, read here.

Baby led Weaning On Vacation (Part 2)

Babyled weaning vacation

In Part 1 of this series I spoke about how you can prepare and plan for a vacation with your baby. In this post I will give you meal ideas for baby led weaning vacation.

I have also listed everything my son ate on our recent weekend getaway. This can serve as an idea as to how a baby led weaning vacation looks like.

Always keep an eye on your baby when eating. Do not leave your baby alone while eating.

Depending upon your travel plans, you can either stay at an accommodation with an attached kitchen or stay in a hotel. Each has its own benefits. Sometimes it’s difficult or economically unviable to find a decent hotel and you would rather prefer to cook your own meals. Other times you’d prefer cooked meals. So, what food can be offered on a baby led weaning vacation?

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Accommodation with Kitchen

This is the better option as you have complete control over your baby’s meals. You can pack a few essentials and buy fresh produce from a local market.

Essentials you can pack are:

  • Dal (Lentils)
  • Rice
  • Quinoa
  • Whole wheat pasta
  • Oats
  • Dalia (Spouted Wheat)
  • Onions
  • Potatoes
  • Tomatoes
  • Cheese

It’s easy to cook a variety of dishes with these ingredients even if you have limited kitchenware.

Staying at a Hotel

Hotels usually carry a kid friendly menu and are happy to make adjustments to the dishes with regards to salt and spice.

Examples of foods you can offer at each meal are:

Breakfast

  • Steamed Idli
  • Paratha
  • Scrambled egg (made from whole egg for babies over 1 year or egg yolk for younger ones)
  • Fruits
  • Cheese
  • Plain Yogurt
  • Plain Oats

Tip: Add fruits like berries, mango, chikoo, soft plums to plain oats and it becomes a complete meal of its own.
Lunch/Dinner

  • Pasta
    Tip: Ask the chef to prepare with no salt and spices
  • Steamed veggies
    Tip: Ask for a tablespoon of olive oil on the side, to add over the veggies.
  • Potato Wedges
  • Grilled Chicken
  • Steamed Fish Fillet
  • Fish Fingers
  • Potato Patty

Snacks

Carry reusable pouches and fill them with oats and locally available fruits. Little ones are adept at eating from a pouch by the time they are 9 months old. Other snacking options are;

  • Fruits
  • Apricots
  • Raisins
  • Baked Sweet Potato
  • Boiled egg
  • Hard cheese
  • Plain yogurt pots

What my toddler ate on our recent trip

Recently we planned a short weekend trip to Pune. We stayed in a room that came with an attached kitchen. We requested the hotel for kitchenware like a saucepan and some spoons.

Day 1: We had a 4 hour car ride to the hotel. Breakfast and a snack were packed for the journey.

Breakfast

  • Methi Theplas
  • Oats Pouch – To the oats I added almond butter, cinnamon and flaxseed powder. This porridge is thick in texture and easy for my little one to suck out of the packet.

Snack 1

  • Boiled sweet potatoes.

Lunch

Even though our room came with an attached kitchen we went for room service for lunch as we were tired from the journey.

  • We ordered Pasta with cottage cheese and spinach from the Kids Menu (without salt and spices on request).

Snack 2

  • Left over Sweet potatoes and an Avocado that I carried.

Dinner

  • Leftover pasta from lunch and chapatti.

Day 2:

Breakfast

  • The buffet had a lot of options; Little A had scrambled egg, papaya and watermelon.

Snack 1

  • The hotel room provided with complimentary fruits, Little A had Banana and Apple.

Lunch

  • We cooked dal khichdi and served along with few slices of avocado. He also ate a chapati from my husband’s plate.

Snack 2

  • We were out during the evening so I packed the same dal khichdi in the reusable pouch and a few medjool dates.

Dinner

  • I cooked quinoa in the room and ordered steamed veggies from the menu. I also asked for a tablespoon of olive oil on the side which I drizzled on the quinoa and veggies along with some pepper.

Day 3:

It was time for us to leave and again a 4 hour journey back. This meant preparing another oats pouch for the road.

Breakfast

  • Steamed idli and egg omelet from the buffet.

Snack 1

  • Banana

Snack 2

  • Oats Pouch [Oats, cinnamon and flaxseed]

We were back home by lunch.

Other foods you can carry for long journeys are:

  • Potato and Peas Patty / Chicken patty
  • Paratha
  • Theplas
  • Chapati [use nut butter as a spread, roll it, and offer baby]
  • Cheese sticks
  • Boiled root veggies like taro root.

I know baby led weaning purists are against the use of pouches. But I find reusable pouches to be great option for travel. You can make your own homemade food and your baby can eat on their own with minimal mess. I don’t think it’s bad if it’s used occasionally especially for travelling. It’s better than providing packaged food outside.

As you can see with proper planning you can have a stress free vacation with your baby led weaned baby. This way you wont compromise on their nutrition during travel.

Hope this post helps you with ideas. How did you plan your vacation with baby? Drop in a comment below.