How To Get Toddlers To Eat Vegetables Without A Fuss

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A frequent question I am asked on Instagram when mothers see my toddlers plate with different types of vegetables each day, is “Does your toddler eat his vegetables?” Many parents of toddlers are going through the picky eating phase and wondering, How to get toddlers to eat vegetables, without any fuss or tricking and help them enjoy vegetables too.

One of my main concerns has always been to encourage healthy eating habits for kids. If you are wondering how to get kids to eat healthily, I have a detailed blog post explaining how to create healthy meals and stock the pantry in your home in a way that helps promote healthier choices.

Read here: How I get my child to eat healthy every day

If picky eating is an issue in your home and you are wondering how to get a picky eater to eat, head to this blog post to understand common toddler eating problems and tackle them.

Toddler years come with their set of challenging behaviors that translate to the table too. Once parents identify the behavior and understand how to tackle each behavior creatively and consistently many of these fussy eating patterns disappear.

WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO EAT VEGETABLES EVERY DAY?

  1. Vegetables provide essential vitamins and minerals needed by growing bodies, especially Vitamin C, folic acid and certain antioxidants to name a few.
  2. Eating the right amount of vegetables per day protects against various diseases and illnesses such as cancers, cardiovascular ailments, and diabetes.
  3. Vegetables contain fiber that protects the bowels, reducing the risk of certain cancers.
  4. Eating a good amount of vegetables per day also reduces the risk of obesity.
  5. Food preferences formed early in life tend to continue into adult life. Therefore developing an early love for vegetables and vegetarian dishes can help your child have a long healthy life.

For an average toddler, you should aim for 2-3 servings of vegetables a day. (source)

WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN TRYING TO ENCOURAGE YOUR TODDLER TO EAT VEGETABLES

Most parents use rewards, pressure tactics or punishments to try and get their children to eat more vegetables.

Research has shown that these tactics do more harm than good.

When you restrict certain food items it causes more preference for the restricted food item. Pressurizing, on the other hand, causes children to have a negative association with food.

A balanced approach to food choices, coupled with education on nutrition and hands-on experience with healthy food is needed to tilt the child’s preferences towards healthy food groups.

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HOW TO GET TODDLERS TO EAT VEGETABLES

  1. Education and Experience

Education lays the foundation for lifelong practices. Getting toddlers involved in hands-on activities like cooking, gardening may encourage greater vegetable consumption.

If you have a garden that’s great, start planting a variety of veggies with your child. Some your favorites and some of your toddler’s favorites.

No garden, that’s okay too, get your toddler involved in the kitchen. Here is a post I wrote on how to cook with toddlers. I included a few easy flameless recipes to try with toddlers. Cooking and making something encourages them to try what they make. In my experience, everything I make with my son has always been a hit with him. He loves the activity and enjoys eating the dishes we make together.

Another way to give a hands-on experience with foods is to take toddlers and older children to the local market. Let them touch, taste and smell fresh fruit and vegetables. These experiences start conversations around the local foods, your cultural food history, memories from your own childhood enjoying these foods.

Creating such an interest in food is important in order to encourage your child to try some of the vegetables on his plate.

  1. Parental modeling

Parents play an important role in shaping children’s eating patterns.

In a recent study, it was found that mothers who ate fruit and vegetables in pregnancy had kids with lower levels of picky eating.

Good eating habits including high consumption of vegetables start at home. Younger children are influenced by parents first, when they see their parents enjoying vegetarian dishes regularly they are more inclined to try the same.

One way to do this is by eating family-style meals or build a taco/burrito type of nights. On these days, lay out the ingredients on the table (try and find a dish that is a crowd pleaser) and add as many vegetables as you can. Looking at you make your own sandwich or taco is a great mimicking opportunity for your toddler.

  1. Wait until hungry

Throughout the toddler years, the routine is constantly challenged. Toddlers have a habit of constantly grazing on food. When it is time for dinner, they don’t have any appetite left.

I usually send my son out to the park just before dinner, that way he is hungry by the time he is home and eats a big dinner.

Other times I don’t fuss if he says no to a meal, I just wait until he is hungry and offer the same meal I originally offered. If he doesn’t eat lunch at lunchtime, I wait and offer lunch after play and nap time.

Point to be noted: Kids eat their vegetables really well when they are ravenously hungry.

  1. Vegetable snacks

Another option is to add more vegetables to snacks or offer vegetables straight up cut into finger-sized portions as snacks.

Cut up carrots, cucumbers, beets, boiled corn, bell peppers and offer these as finger foods to munch on between meals.

Add vegetables to smoothies, savory muffins, savory pancakes or waffles. Kids love these types of snacks and you are assured about vegetable consumption.

Here is an interesting excerpt from a research paper I read recently:

Making foods available and accessible to children has been associated with intake of fruit and vegetable in children. (Rasmussen et al., 2006).

Availability of food means that a given food is present in the children’s immediate environment (e.g., fruit and vegetables present in the home and available in the school). Accessibility concerns whether the given foods are present in a place and form that facilitates their consumption, eg sliced vegetables.

Making vegetables available and accessible to children, for example in school canteens or a veggie platter at home appear to be an effective strategy for increasing the intake of vegetables.

The repeated exposure to a variety of fruit and vegetables thus leads to an increase in children’s intake, offering an actual and sustainable effect on children’s eating behavior. (source)

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  1. Plating combinations

Another trick is to make vegetables the first course at dinner. If you know your child will fill up on the mashed potatoes and meat dishes on the plate, serve vegetables first.

Start the meal with a vegetarian appetizer or sauteed/grilled vegetables followed by the rest of the dinner menu. This way your child has taken at least one bite of his veggies before moving on to his other favorites.

As long as he is trying one bite each time, the day will come when he eats his entire serving of vegetables.

If you can’t do courses you can also try and plate vegetables with other not-so-favorite foods, this encourages the child to try the vegetables. Keep the child’s favorite food for last, this way they don’t just fill up on their favorite ignoring the veggies.

  1. Add vegetables to everything

One trick that worked with me when I was a child, was adding vegetables in dishes I liked. One of the foods I loved as a child was scrambled eggs, my mom took my favorite dish and made it yummier by adding vegetables like finely chopped spring onions, peas, and carrots. This was the only way I ate those vegetables as a child.

I usually don’t recommend sneaking veggies into toddler food, but when your toddler doesn’t eat any veggies this might be a good idea.

Smoothies, vegetable sandwiches, veggie fritters, and patty, burritos, pasta, fried rice, stuffed parathas are all great dishes to hide those vegetables in.

Combine vegetables with other grains, proteins, and healthy fats to make them as delicious as possible. No one likes straight up steamed veggies all the time, get creative with how you cook your veggies.

To get an idea of how I pair foods and offer vegetables to my toddler you can read these blog posts. You will see some of the points I mentioned here in practice;

What my toddler eats in a week

A week of healthy toddler meals

If you are still wondering,

How to get toddlers to eat vegetables?

Remember, parental modeling, consistent exposure and hands-on experience is your best bet for long-term and sustained change in toddler eating behaviors.

How do you get your toddler to eat vegetables? If you have some secret mommy tricks or ways to encourage healthy eating, do leave me a comment below.

Toddler Eating Habits: Challenges And Solutions

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Toddler eating habits are a topic of discussion on all weaning forums. Once children enter toddlerhood, their eating habits take center stage and parents start to feel like they are in a constant state of war with their kids.

Common challenging areas and questions regarding toddler eating problems are;

  1. The toddler stopped eating
  2. Eats only select few foods (selective eater/picky eater)
  3. Has a reduced appetite (only 1-2 meals a day)
  4. Rejecting previously loved foods
  5. Distracted at meal times

Moms who follow me on Instagram see the success we had with baby led weaning and wonder how my son readily eats every meal offered.

While baby-led weaning has a huge role to play in reducing fussiness at the table, we too have faced other toddler feeding issues such as distraction at meal times, wanting to be out of the high chair, rejecting previously loved foods and dips in appetite.

There is a conscious effort that goes into raising children to be healthy eaters. I will tackle each of these toddler feeding problems and provide actionable steps to encourage and bring back toddler to eating healthily in a calm and gentle way.

No control wars at the table, no tears and no whining. Just a happy and peaceful transition back into regular mealtimes with family.

How is this possible you ask? Well, it does requires a lot of patience and creativity but not impossible to do.

 

COMMON TODDLER EATING HABITS AND HOW TO MANAGE THEM

The toddler stopped eating

This behavior usually stems from control issues at the table. Once children enter toddler years they begins to exert more and more control over their environments in a bid to gain independence. Don’t take this personally. It’s just a developmental phase.

I would recommend starting by giving independence and freedom to choose the food they like at the table. Serve a family style meal where everyone picks what they like. Giving control over what they can pick and choose is the first step towards breaking the barriers stopping them from eating.

An example of a family style meal can be “Build a Taco Night” Or “Build a burrito night” Some sort of food where they are involved in making and choosing the ingredients themselves as they eat.

Another option is to ask them what they would like to eat between 2 options at dinner. Would you like pasta or dosa? Now, don’t make this a habit, use this technique just to get them to start sitting at the table with you. Be very cautious about the number of times you use this technique otherwise before you know it you are a short order cook.

Also, always pick options that are already a part of dinner time, making it look like a choice to your toddler but not putting yourself through too much trouble making new meals just for the children.

If they still don’t want to eat at dinner time, just go with the flow and let them have it their wayNo child will willingly starve himself. This behavior is only one asking for more independence.  So give them the independence they seek. As long as your child is otherwise energetic and meeting growth requirements they are doing fine.

Continue practicing a calmer and peaceful meal routine, where you sit with them and eat as a family. Not bothered too much on whats going on in their plate. Just happily eating and enjoying family time at the table. In time they will be reassured that you are truly giving them the choice to eat by themselves and will be back to eating healthily.

How to ensure proper nutrition during this period?

  1. Offer energy-dense foods whenever you can. Adding healthy fats to your child’s meals is one way to make the meals energy dense.
  2. Offer child’s favorites at every meal along with other varieties so that they feel motivated to try more.
  3. Give them time for a lot of physical activity. This was a trick my grandpa used on me when I was a little fussy eating girl. He would take me out for long walks or to the beach nearby every day. I would play to my heart’s content, return home ravenously hungry and eat the same food I rejected at lunch without uttering a single word. A little bit of sunshine and activity always does the trick. As I mentioned before, no child will starve themselves on purpose. When hungry they will eat.

How to restart a positive and encouraging environment at home around the dinner table?

Ideally, parents should be focussed on creating a positive environment around food and eating habits instead of enforcing strict rules on what should be eaten and how much.

Your role as a parent is to decide what foods to serve your child and let your child decide how much and if at all to eat. If this is practiced from the very beginning there is rarely fussiness at the dinner table.

If at all you have lost your way read this article for tips on how to bring your fussy eater back to eating healthily. I speak in depth about the reasons behind toddler fussy eating and tips on creating a positive home environment.

The selective eater

So, your toddler does eat, but only a few of his favorites. Sometimes those options maybe junk foods, then how do you go about changing his eating habits?

The first step is always to start with known foods that are loved. If your toddler loves french fries, offer those in a healthier version – baked fries at most meals alongside other foods. And don’t pressurize on what to eat from the plate. Just wait and watch. When they do try something different let them know that you saw that they tried something new and appreciate the effort they took. Then move on, continue eating your own meal. Do this every time they try something new.

Slowly start to add more varieties on the side and as they start to enjoy newer foods make more and more of the new foods slowly bringing back to complete family meals.  It can take up to 10-15 tries before a toddler accepts new foods so don’t be disheartened if they don’t like something in the first or second try.

A great way to get the selective eater open to newer foods is to start taking them to the market, talking about different fruits and vegetables.

Getting them involved in making/cooking something with parental help. Easy dishes for kids to make themselves are fruit salads, salads, smoothies, sandwiches, nice creams, or energy balls.

Key to success with a selective eater is to provide the food they already eat alongside exposure to a variety of other new foods at the table, in the kitchen or at the market. The more they learn about healthy foods the more they will be motivated to try.

 

Reduced appetite

There is an appetite drop in the toddler years compared to when your child was an infant. This is part of normal development because they are not growing at a fast pace compared to the infant years.

So, the first step here is to check your own expectations on what a normal appetite and portion size for a toddler looks like.

In case you are overfeeding your toddler at meal times, there can be a likelihood that they will skip meals which you, in turn, can look at as reduced appetite.

If your child is truly eating very little even after a lot of activity, you can try and make every food energy dense using healthy fats and proteins to fill any nutritional gaps.

Examples of energy-dense foods: Fruit Smoothies with nut butter and nut powders, paneer aloo patty or meat patty, parathas, pancakes served with nut butter and maple syrup, oats porridge topped with fruit, nut butter, and seeds like chia, hemp, flaxseed.

All of these meals are yummy, filling and nutritious and can help to maintain nutrition on days your toddler is not particularly excited about eating or eating just a few meals.

Rejecting previously loved foods

Another common toddler eating problem is rejecting previously loved foods. This hurts us mommies the most, especially if they loved a healthy food previously.

The key to helping your child get over this phase is consistency. Do not stop offering the food because he rejects it now. Keep on offering the food made in the same way as before alongside other foods he enjoys currently.

And as always do not force or manipulate your child into eating, just offer and wait for him to try on his own.

This takes months sometimes, but having gone through such food rejections I know that they always turn around and come back to the foods they loved. It’s most likely a temporary phase.

Rejecting a few loved foods should be used as an opportunity to introduce other new foods. Tastes change throughout childhood, don’t take these food rejections personally.

No need for labels

Most importantly do not label your child a fussy eater because of such changes in likings. Be careful about what words you use, the child may take your label seriously and start identifying himself as a fussy eater which will lead to even more fussy eating.

How do I know this? Well, I was a former “fussy eater” and I carried the label throughout my childhood with pride. Instead of focussing on teaching me about healthy eating and foods, there was too much focus on what I was not eating and how little I was eating. This only made me want to rebel further.

Respect your children’s wishes too. Sometimes there may be some foods they truly don’t love, it does not make them “fussy eaters” Such labels damage self-esteem and lead to eating problems in children.

Personally for me, once the shift was made from focussing on what I don’t eat to teaching me about healthy foods, I changed my eating habits on my own. Today I eat foods that belong to all the colors of the rainbow. And here I am talking about healthy eating to mothers like you. This shift was self-driven on the foundation of knowledge.

Our role as parents is to drive the shift, share our knowledge and not enforce strict rules that may lead to eating problems.

Distracted at meal times

This is one of the most common toddler eating habits, especially when they first start walking. They want to engage with the world around them and use their feet as a tool to go explore.

Once again as parents all you need to know is that your child is going through a developmental phase. No need for labels, here too! Provide support to your child in the form of consistency and structured routine.

Some tricks that worked for us:

  1. Announcing meal times, so that he knows he has to leave his toys and go sit in the high chair for his meal.
  2. Sitting together as a family. Say to him, “mommy and daddy sit at the table to eat”.
  3. Using the high chair from the very beginning is useful as a form of a reminder, that meal times only happen at the table.
  4. Consistency helps if the situation is getting out of hand and your toddler is getting up frequently. It’s time to end the meal. Believe me, you won’t have to do this more than 2 times for them to get the message that they need to focus on meals at mealtime and play after. You can say, “Looks like you are done eating? Let’s get you out of there”. And stop the meal. If he is still hungry he will ask to sit, that’s when you remind him, meals are eaten sitting down. Once done he can get up.

Being distracted at meal times is also a temporary phase and turns back to normal meal times when handled in a calm and consistent manner.

As much as I say these tips worked for me, I want you to know that implementing them and seeing results does take time and patience. Nothing permanent is ever a quick fix. You have to constantly improvise and stay consistent with your messaging.

Children demand and deserve all our patience.

They also thrive on consistency and routine.

And both of these; patience and consistency are very important when setting healthy eating habits.

As difficult and challenging as it may be, positive language and outlook from both parents motivate children to move quickly through these temporary phases. These attitude changes from the parent’s side are also important so that the feeding issues don’t end up becoming long-term bad eating behaviors.

What feeding challenges do you face with your toddler? Do you have special tricks of your own to handle these toddler eating habits? Leave your tips for other moms reading this article. Let’s talk about our experiences in the comments below.