10 Eye-opening Benefits Of Reading To Your Child

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If you are a new age parent you have probably already heard about the benefits of reading to your child.  In fact, even the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) makes a strong effort to talk about the importance of reading to babies and toddlers as a way to promote early literacy skills. These efforts have led to a rising trend in reading to kids among millennial parents.

“Reading regularly with young children stimulates optimal patterns of brain development and strengthens parent-child relationships at a critical time in child development, which, in turn, builds language, literacy, and social-emotional skills that last a lifetime,” the AAP says.

Let’s look at this topic more in-depth and understand why educators and child development experts stress on reading aloud to kids.

BENEFITS OF READING TO BABIES AND BRAIN DEVELOPMENT

  1. Bond with parent

Reading aloud to babies helps parents bond with their babies. Reading helps soothe the child and build the foundation for trust in the parent. The parent is giving direct attention to the baby through the act of reading aloud and infants notice this.

  1. Early reading kickstarts language skills

A big importance of reading at an early age is the effect reading has on developing early language skills. Babies are noticing tone, inflections, and rhythms in voice. Research shows that reading aloud from an early age leads to developing early language and vocabulary.

  1. Helps eyes to track and focus on visuals

An infant has blurred vision and daily reading can help them focus on strong contrasting visuals in books providing the necessary input for eyesight development. That is why many experts recommend reading books with high contrast or black and white images to babies.

  1. Cognitive development

Introducing books at an early age lays the foundation for future cognitive skills like reasoning, problem-solving, and memory building. Early reading benefits not only language development but also helps literacy skills in the future such as writing, reading and math.

  1. Introduces the child to the concept of reading

They say practice makes one perfect. The same applies here, the more a child is read to the more will he learn to read in the future. Before they learn to read independently they need to be equipped with a large vocabulary. Setting a reading routine is crucial to make the child understand that books are a form of communication. They contain pictures and words that mean something. It is never too early or late starting to read to your child, as long as you read.

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BENEFITS OF READING TO TODDLERS

  1. Introduces emotions and feelings

Reading stories introduces the child to different emotions and feelings. Watching the character go through emotions helps the toddler understand his own. This, in turn, helps with better communication since they now recognize the emotion and can express it to their parent.

  1. Sparks creativity

Reading books helps the child understand concepts, ignite imagination and creativity. They spark a whole new series of questions getting the child to think about and express feelings and ideas.

  1. As a form of entertainment

One of the biggest benefits of reading to toddlers is the use of books as a form of entertainment. Keeping kids engaged in books reduces screentime. Not only is reading helping the child to learn how to focus and engage in deep work, it keeps over stimulating modes of entertainment like electronic toys and screen use to a minimum.

  1. Enhances language development

Not only does early reading kickstart language skills it also helps improve language skills. Reading short stories regularly helps a toddler understand the finer nuances of conversation through tone and inflection. They begin to hold effective conversation themselves.

  1. Using books to teach life skills

Toddlers need to feel included in the adult world at the same time feeling as competent as the adults around them. Using books about bedtime routines, daily routines,  ones showcasing expected behaviors, helps a toddler grasp these concepts faster.

By now they are deeply invested and engaged in the reading habit and want to mimic the characters they read about.

I have found books useful in teaching my son everything from helping mommy with chores, to brushing teeth, having a bath. When he sees these characters do these things in the books he reads, he wants to follow along and do it himself.

Books can also be used as an introduction to your culture or language. These days there are toddler storybooks on almost every subject and language.

Must have books for toddlers 

Brown bear, brown bear what do you see?

Polar bear, polar bear what do you see?

Goodnight moon

The going to bed book

The Gruffalo

Busy park

HOW TO GET YOUR CHILD INTERESTED IN READING?

  1. Start with a routine

The easiest way to get your child interested in reading is by including reading as a part of your daily routine. Include bedtime reading or morning reading sessions or both. Make books your go-to activity as you move along the day. Once kids get used to this one on one time with you, they themselves remind you about books.

  1. Books everywhere

Another smart tip to encourage reading and interest in books is to create a small reading nook for your child. Include a big basket or bookshelf that is easily accessible to the child and a mat or chair to sit on.

Leave books in different corners of the house from your coffee table to the bedside table.

The key here is, the books need to be accessible to the child.

Once placed in different locations of the house, the books catch their attention and they like finding something familiar in different corners of the house.

  1. Model the behavior

Read with your child or make it a point that your child sees you read. As with everything else in parenting, when the parents act as a model for a certain behavior, it catches on faster with the kids.

  1. Diverse topics and styles

To keep your child constantly engaged, buy books in different formats – board books, cloth books, paperbacks, pop out books, and busy books.

Include different topics in terms of the subject of books. Here are some age-appropriate book lists for your kids.

Books for babies

Books for 1-year-olds

Books for 2-year-olds

I hope this article helps you get into a reading routine with your child and reinforces the importance of reading to babies. What benefits of reading did you experience with your child?

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9 Simple Tips To Encourage Language Development

Tips To Encourage Language Development

Language development is an important developmental milestone. Each child has different growth and development rates. But there are a few basic parenting strategies that can be practiced by all parents to encourage early language development.

These strategies helped us with our son. When we started with these we didn’t do it with a goal of enhancing his language; it was just our way of interacting and nurturing a bond with him. But along the way, we observed how this parenting style helped him start talking early and pick up a variety of words. I thought it would be great to share these tips with other parents just starting out or those who still want to try and help enrich their child’s vocabulary. So let’s begin;

Talk, Talk, Talk

Start talking with your little one from day one. At this stage, they crave to hear your voice since they can’t see very well. They respond with coos and gurgles and this marks the beginning of early communication. Examples of talk with babies can be as simple as asking; “how are you today?”, “Are you happy to see Mumma?”, “What is my little one up to?”. Modulate your voice to get them interested in what you are saying and pause for them to respond.
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Point at things

As a few months pass by and your baby’s eyesight is getting sharper start pointing out things. Describe what you see around you at home or outside. Examples: Look at that red bus. These are beautiful yellow flowers. Look at the butterfly. Keep repeating and pointing at everyday objects from their environment. On repeatedly talking about the crows and making sounds of the crows during your walks, for example, they pick up the word “crow”.

Be specific in your instructions

As they grow in their toddler years, a lot of times it’s difficult for parents to understand what exactly the child wants. They cry and throw tantrums for a lack of knowledge on how to communicate their feelings. It is best to give clear instructions and ask specific questions to communicate well with your toddler.

Examples: “Mommy can’t hear you over the crying, do you want_____?”; “Bring me the red bucket”. This type of communication encourages them to speak and also helps them understand what is expected of them.

Messy play

Baby-led weaning is a great way to getting messy at the table and in turn encourage language development. When the child touches and feels their food through this form of sensory-based self-feeding, they start understanding words associated with certain non-solid objects; for example hot, cold, liquid food, soft food, squishy peas, etc.

I personally felt baby-led weaning and messy eating at the table helped immensely with my son’s grasp of certain words. Another way to incorporate getting messy is through messy play like coloring, painting, playing in a sandbox, etc.

Read, Read Read

I cannot emphasize this point more. Read to your child from the very beginning. Even if it’s just a board book with few images make an imaginary story around those images and read to the baby.

Reading helps them learn words, encourages their creativity and imagination too. Look for books with rhyming words, these get toddlers excited when read aloud. They pick up rhyming words quickly too. I am adding a list below of books I observed that helped my son pick up a lot of words from, hopefully, you will find them useful for your child too.
What the ladybug heard next
Polar bear polar bear what do you hear
The very hungry caterpillar
Vikas tiny board books
Baby faces
First words
Little baby books everyday
Eyes, nose, fingers, and toes
Here come Poppy and Max

Pretend Play

Around the 16-18 month period toddlers start enjoying pretend play. Use pretend play to introduce new words, associations, etiquette, and style of talking. A kitchen set is most apt for this age group, but you can get anything your toddler enjoys and engage in some pretend play.

Open-ended toys

Open ended toys promote language development, for example, jungle animal sets, fruits, and vegetable sets. You can use these for pretend play or allow the toddler to explore and try out different games with these.

A fun game my son came up with is to match his toy safari set to the pages of a book he is reading where the animal is featured. His eyes light up and he squeals in joy when he finds a match. This type of association building between real-world objects and age-appropriate toys and books facilitates early language development.

Here are a few open-ended toys we found to be engaging for little ones.

Getting out of the house

In one of the previous points, I spoke about how you should point at things and describe them in detail to your baby. Spending time outdoors is an important activity that can aid this step. When you are out you can show your child a variety of things.

Take them for a walk in the park, or a local museum, art gallery, beach, restaurants, malls, play areas, or the library. Every experience outside is teaching them new words and encouraging them to use words.

Socialize

Once they are a little older start taking them to family functions, festive celebrations, and parties. These social events create an environment where your child is exposed to different styles of spoken language. And in a country like India, maybe even a different language than one spoken at home.

I know many families don’t take small babies to social events. But, you can always take them to your grandparents’ place and family and friends’ place. They crave interaction and this helps to get them interested in talking from a young age.

I hope these points get you started on interacting more deeply with your baby. Talk to them, read to them and most importantly spend quality time with them.

With busy lives, we are all turning to screens to help us with our kids. But a screen is a consumption device that cant help the child to interact in a two-way manner thus restricting their language development.

Use screen time judiciously and try and introduce them to books and other activities that introduce them to a rich language. I wrote here on how you can engage your child in non-screen time activities.

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Reasons Why You Need To Let Your Child Get Messy Eating

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We have all seen numerous pictures on social media of messy eating babies with food smeared all over their faces and hands. While these pictures get an “awww” reaction out of us, the parents have a hard time cleaning up these messes.
I know many mothers cringe at the thought of offering potentially messy food to their little ones, fearing the aftermath. But let me put forth my case as to why it’s ok to let your baby make a mess while eating. So the next time you see your little one flinging yogurt across the room or dropping yet another bowl of food from the high chair, you know you are actually helping his/her development in some way.

AZ Tuckerbox sent me the new Burp ‘N Drool Tuckerbox, but the opinions expressed in this article are my own.

Benefits of Messy Eating

Messy eating promotes language development

A recent study shows the influence that the context of everyday activities such as mealtimes has on children’s exploration, attention and word learning. When young children messily eat and explore food at each meal, they are learning both about individual foods and also about non solid substances. This aids in early word learning and language development.

This higher vocabulary generally correlates with a better executive function which means better ability to apply rules to situations and control behavior appropriately.

Messy eating leads to greater acceptance of food

A Reuters article highlighted a study that showed there may be an association between getting children to play with messy substances helping their food acceptance. The researchers suggested that playing with food may actually help kids overcome a fear of new flavors and eat a more varied diet.

The takeaway here is that as parents we need to approach eating as a hands-off approach, allowing our children to explore, touch and feel their food. This quenches their thirst for exploration and curiosity and generates a more positive association with the food they eat.
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Messy eating promotes the development of gross motor skills and fine motor skills

From learning gross motor skills like sitting upright at the table to fine motor skills like managing to scoop up a spoonful of soup and bringing to mouth, all these skills involve getting messy in some way. So let them make a mess and learn along the way. You can guide them on how to sit at the table and use their forks and spoons. Then let them go ahead and experiment and use those muscles in their hands to become skilled at eating. Learning to use the spoon and fork is a key skill to becoming less messier eater down the road. Also, these skills are transferable to when they learn to write and color. Once they know how to eat with spoon and fork they are quick to learn how to hold color pencils and crayons correctly too.

Messy eating is a form of sensory play

Children eat their food with both hands, squishing at peas, smearing the soup across the table, licking it off their fingers, then going back to dipping their fingers in the soup for some more smearing.

While all this looks messy, what is happening at the brain level is something amazing. They are getting feedback from their food about different textures, volumes, and differentiation between solid foods and non solid foods. Learning about food through this type of sensory play is an exercise in exploration, curiosity and self feeding which ultimately helps build a positive environment around the food they eat.

Some foods are hot, some cold, some are sticky, some are smooth, some liquid and some hard to touch. Imagine the excitement they experience on using their senses to discover new flavors and textures of foods.

Read here to learn more about the importance of sensory play in child development.

Messy eating promotes independent eating

As I just mentioned in the point above getting messy while eating helps their curiosity which in turn promotes self feeding. Once they have touched and tasted the food, the sense of achievement they feel every time they can guide the spoon skilfully from bowl to their mouths is something else.

Okay, now these were some of the benefits of allowing children to get messy eating at the table. But you must be thinking, it’s easy for you to say so, I am the one cleaning up after every meal.

I have been there! being a baby led weaning mom. Mess is a part of every meal time for us. Along the way, I have come up with a few strategies to reduce the mess. Let me tell you all about them.

Tips to reduce the mess

  1. Serve finger foods whenever possible. Pancakes, oats fingers, fruits are easy finger foods to offer a baby. Also reduces the number of messes to clean later.
  2. Make a thicker version of oats and dals that don’t slide off the spoon easily. This helps them get good at scooping up the food in their spoons and aids initial learning of self feeding with spoons. Once they become skilled at it you can move on to smoother and thinner textures of liquid food.
  3. Lay a splash mat or newspapers on the floor. This catches most of the messes and reduces half the workload.
  4. Keep a spray bottle with natural cleaner or water at hand. Helps to wipe down the high chair easily.
  5. Use highchair and booster seats that are made of easy to clean materials. I highly recommend, Chicco Pocket Lunch Highchair especially because it has a large tray that helps limit the messes to the table and Fisher-Price Quick Clean N’ Go Booster because it is made of easy to clean materials, lightweight and comes with a travel-friendly strap.
  6. Use bowls and plates with a suction base to minimize messes. Those who follow me on Instagram know how much I love my Avanchy bowl and plate set. This set is made of bamboo wood and comes with a silicone suction base. A boon for baby led weaning families.
  7. A new product I love is the AZ Tuckerbox bib and burp cloth set. The bibs help catch any messes my toddler makes when he eats. They come in stylish patterns and colors. I find them great to use especially when we travel outside, as they look like a part of his outfit and not like I put him in some sort of contraption and help with keeping his outfit clean.

The Burp ‘N Drool Tuckerbox also comes with a burp cloth that is nice and big in size, easy to carry in the diaper bag and use it for cleaning those messy fingers on the go. The material used is soft cotton and washes well too. AZ Tuckerbox curates cool subscription boxes right from newborn stage to older kids and now moms too. Be sure to check them out, its a one of a kind unique service available to Indian mothers.

So go ahead let your little ones make some messes as they eat. Rest assured they are learning some great things along the way.

AZ Tuckerbox was kind enough to send me the new Burp ‘N Drool Tuckerbox, but the opinions expressed in this article are my own.

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